I NEED A GUYS' ANSWER?!?!!?

So one guy asked me out, forgot, then wanted a one night stand with me (i didnt let it happen) but he was one of my old friends and stopped talking to me. Then, another friend, I went over to his house, he kissed me and was all cuddly but never asked me out, now he has a girlfriend (?!?!?!?!?!) Sooo i dont get it, am i easy?? a little desperate?? or are both me and the guys weird or just them?? I dont get it!!!