I want to get out of the friend zone. What am I doing wrong?

I KNOW that it is hard to even think of doing this but, please share your feelings with him about how this is making you feel. Yes it's true that some guys do not want to talk about emotions and feelings but you will be surprised that the ones that you truly know care about you and get close to you are the ones who WANT to hear what you think of them. Talk this out with him. If he is just wanting to cuddle and get close to you, then he may only want your affection instead of a relationship with you. If this guy is in his teens or twenty's then he is prolly telling you the truth about not wanting a relationship bc he likes the fact that he can do whatever he wants. Regardless of this, I would still tell him how you feel. Maybe nothing will happen between the two of you right now, but later on down the road when he is more mature emotionally, you may be shocked to see that he has probably loved you this whole time and wants to be with you. The ones that we truly love are worth the wait!